"Stop 'Selling' and Start Making More Money In Your Business"
By Edward "Mr Ed" Thorpe

 

"Helping Online Entrepreneurs Since 2001"
 

 

A short, but true, story...

I was hired for my first 'professional sales' gig some years ago. (probably before you'd graduated middle school).

I'd already been selling stuff since I was 7 or 8 years old. I kind of liked selling and felt comfortable doing it. I didn't really think about the act of selling, I just did it.
      

 

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So I figured I'd do okay with my new sales career.

I expected product training. And was looking forward to it. But I wasn't quite prepared for the prerequisite sales training the company used. To begin with, the company's training staff made certain I understood my previous sales experiences were amateurish. And would only make their job harder.

They were basically saying, "We're Some Kinda Sales Professional Dudes. And you ain't...!"

Who was I to argue? I was the newbie. Newbies are seen and not heard. No problem, Sales Professional Dudes, I'm with you on that...

The product training went pretty good.

The sales training? I'm not real sure how two weeks spent memorizing a 135 minute presentation was designed to turn me into one of those Sales Professional Dudes. I'll admit to knowing that presentation sideways. But so what? A reasonably smart teenager could have.

Come on now, how does memorization equal sales training?

As it turned out, knowing the presentation was good enough to graduate. Graduation qualified me to begin making three pre-set sales presentations a day. There were only three instances when I wasn't required to give the entire 135 minute presentation:

  1. I made a sale before I finished...

  2. I was physically ejected from the home...

  3. The home owners called the police on me.

Yeah, I AM exaggerating. But only slightly...

Anyway, there I was, a Sales Professional Dude, doing 3 presentations a day without being a trained to make a sale. I did so badly that I started doubting if I could sell candy to a rich third grader. Which presented a small problem...

My employer was paying me to make sales and I didn't want to get fired!

"What's a poor boy to do?"

I did what I'd always done when I wanted to learn something. I headed to the library. I checked out every book and audio tape I could find that dealt with the art of selling.

Heck, I was soo gung-ho, I filled spiral bound notebooks with handwritten outlines of the principles and techniques detailed in the books and tapes.

Yep . . .

Before long I was up to my kneecaps in sales presentation steps, selling processes, handling objections, re-stating benefits, trial closes, pre-closes, pre-pre-closes, timed closes, handling objections, eye contact, body positioning, assuming the sale, passive and overt sandwich maneuvers, etc, etc, etc...

I memorized the lot and practiced using them... Not on a prospect, mind you. I practiced them in front of a mirror, with my tape recorder going, no less. After a heap of practice, I started working some of them into my presentations.

Guess what?

I still sucked at selling. I still got a sickish feeling before and after I asked for the sale. And I felt like the sales techniques I was using was somehow cheating. But the worse was how I was starting to feel like selling was a dirty word. Worth repeating...

I started feeling like selling was a dirty word. (Remember this. We'll talk more about it in a minute).

When my boss found out what I'd been up to, he pulls me aside, growls "You bleeping idiot, that crap ya gotta out the library stinks and is outta date!" Or words to that effect...

Talk about giving a guy support, huh? <smile>

I can laugh about it now. But it really ticked me off at the time. Which made me more determined to succeed. (I've often wondered if that wasn't his intend on the first place, to goad me into not giving up).

But he did get me thinking about what I was doing.

I figured ok, if the stuff from the library was outdated, let's get going at the new stuff. Which is exactly what I did. I started buying tapes, books and going to sales training seminars.  I really couldn't afford them, but I convinced myself it was a good investment.

So there I was. Memorizing new selling techniques, strategies and tactics from the likes of Tom Peters, Zig Ziglar, Brian Tracy and a slew of other 'experts' who were peddling their wares in those days.

At this point, your question is "Did this help you get better at selling?"

Yes, it did. And... No, it didn't.

I was feeling a more comfortable in front of a prospect. I could visualize in my mind the skills I'd practiced when I was making presentations. I did use some of them. And, I was making sales. But, in all honesty, the new sales training tactics were basically the same as I'd learned from the library.

And I still felt like I was cheating when I used them.  Worse yet, I still feeling 'selling' was a dirty word.

Here's the happy ending of my story...

  1. I didn't give up. Not bragging here. I was between a rock and a hard place. I didn't have a choice. At the time, it was the best way I knew of to make money.

  2. One sentence on a Zig Ziglar audio tape, forever changed my life...And my sales career. Zig's sentence... "He immediately moved around to my side of the table."

The 'he' Zig referred to, was his Cadillac salesman. Zig meant the salesman put himself in Zig's "shoes". The Caddy salesman wasn't worried about selling Zig a car. He was more concerned with finding out exactly what Zig wanted...And helping Zig get it.

Wow! Bells and whistles seemed to go off in my mind.

I still remember exactly where I was and what I was doing when I heard that. I was mowing my lawn, listening to Zig on one of those walkman type cassette players. Thankfully, Zig's sentence caused me to clearly see the big picture.

I'd been doing it all wrong! 

I was trying to sell.

I was doing more thinking about myself than I was about my prospects. I knew what I wanted...I wanted to make a sale. I didn't give a hoot about what a prospect wanted. Plus, I was willing to use any selling skill I could learn, if it helped me make the sale.

Instead of finding out and solving my prospect's problems, my focus was on me. "I" was always on the spot. "I" was always performing. My entire professional sales career, such as it was, had been totally about "ME".

No wonder selling made me sickish, huh?

It would make a good story if I could tell you I took my new understanding and quickly became a top salesperson. Sorry. It didn't happen. I still had more lessons to learn.

For example. It took me a long time to un-learn the selling tricks/skills I'd worked on. Then it took me awhile to discover there was another set of people skills I needed. For example,

The Number One Trick To Selling Anything, is to...

Make absolutely certain you're 'talking' to the right person, at the right time and about the right thing!

The Number Two Trick To Selling Anything, is to...

Stop selling, and start solving problems!

Yep. We're back to "Making Money Online" with your Internet Business. The honest truth is, you're not going to make a lot of money online if you haven't targeted a niche market with money they're willing to spend.

Until you know who you're talking to and what they want, how can you possibly solve their problems? And how can you expect to "Move Around To Their Side Of The Table?"

I've only scratched the surface here. But I hope this helps you in some way.

By the way. I still don't do much "Selling"... But I do love solving people's problems!

 

About The Author:

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